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Female Orgasm, Ejaculation & G-Spot Massage
The discovery of the g-spot
During the 1940's, when Dr Alfred Kinsey published his research into
the "art of marriage," a Dr. Grafenberg's earlier research into the
female orgasm came under scrutiny. Dr. Grafenberg had identified a
small mass of erectile tissue around the female urethra, similar to
tissue in the penis, as a source of female pleasure and orgasm.
Grafenberg said that this tissue became enlarged during sex and
"swelled out greatly at orgasm."
Research into the Grafenberg area, or g spot as it has come to be
known, languished until the 1970's when researchers started correlating
stimulation of the g spot with a resultant different type of orgasm -
the vaginal orgasm. G spot orgasms are typically accompanied with
vaginal and uterine contractions, whereas clitoral orgasms tend to be
accompanied by only vaginal contractions. Sometimes, the g spot orgasm
was accompanied by the expulsion of fluid at the point of orgasm -
female ejaculation. In all cases, the researchers said that women who
experienced a g spot orgasm described it as very powerful and much more
protracted than a clitoral orgasm whether it was accompanied by female
ejaculation or not.
The g spot is located about three
or four inches inside the vagina on the front side of the vagina.
Imagine lying on your back with your partner inserting their fingers
inside your vagina and pressing them towards your navel. They should
find your g spot just above the patch of rough tissue inside the
vagina. It's thimble sized and should start to swell as it's massaged.
It needs firm pressure, as it's sometimes hard to find.
If you're having trouble finding
your g spot, consider trying a g spot massager. They can produce very
intense g spot sensations. Some women report that stimulation of the g
spot is often also accompanied by strong feelings of a need to urinate.
This usually disappears quickly and feelings of pleasure should replace
it with continued massaging. You'll know when you find it. Experiment
with how best to stimulate your g spot but remember that firm pressure
is required. G spot toys can help in many instances.
Serious study into female ejaculation has only occurred recently. Some
ancient cultures depicted what seems to be female ejaculation in their
artworks, but despite some historical evidence documenting female
ejaculation in the past, medicine has in the main attributed the
expulsion of fluids by females to "poor bladder control" or "urinary
incontinence". Others thought that the expulsion of fluid was the
result of excess vaginal secretions. Research in the last few decades
has shown both these suggestions to be incorrect and that in fact
nearly half of all women can experience ejaculation either through self
stimulation or sexual activity with a partner. To the women that
ejaculated, it was all a mystery. Whilst female ejaculation was
generally thought to occur at the time of orgasm, it can in fact occur
in the lead up to orgasm as well. In fact, female ejaculation can occur
at any time during sexual arousal.
While female ejaculation is the
common expression, ejaculation is perhaps the wrong word for it. While
some women report a "gushing" or "squirting", others say the liquid is
expelled with little force, in fact some called it a "dribble". Amounts
can vary; anything from a few drops to a cupful can be the result.
Tales of "gushing female orgasms" are probably a little off the mark
but there is no doubt that some women ejaculate both copiously and with
When female ejaculation occurs, the
consensus is that it comes from the urethra and not the vagina. As we
learnt previously, the g spot surrounds the urethra and is composed of
tissue very similar to the male prostate gland. Researchers say it is
this paraurethral tissue that produces the ejaculate. Consequently, the
description of the g spot as the female prostate is probably not that
far off the truth!
The ejaculate itself is
surprisingly similar to male ejaculatory fluid. It is this fluid in men
that carries the sperm and together make up the male ejaculate - semen.
There is some agreement on the make up of female ejaculate. A liquid
very similar to male prostate fluid is certainly in evidence in female
ejaculate but there is often a significant quantity of other fluid -
either from the bladder or urethra as well. It seems that both the
quantity of ejaculate differs between women as does the make-up of the
ejaculate. After repeated tests, one thing is certain, it is definitely
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